You miss the way he used to look at you. The way he used to touch you without you asking. The flirting, the kisses, the compliments, the small things that made you feel seen.
Now affection feels rare. Romance feels like something from the past. You may lie beside your husband and feel miles away from him. And the worst part is that you don't know what changed.
So your mind starts asking hard questions. Does he still find me attractive? Is there another woman? Has he stopped loving me? Is this how our marriage will be from now on?
You've tried to get close. Maybe you've brought it up before. Maybe it turned into an argument, or he brushed it off, or you felt rejected again. And after a while, it can hurt your confidence in a way nobody else sees.